You


You are the one person uniquely qualified to be you.  

No one else can.  

It's your game; it's your rules.  


You get to define success and failure.  

You get to judge what is right and wrong, good and bad.  


You alone get to decide how you are, in this moment.

Photos by Ken Johnson of CKC Image.

Have a Beautiful Friday!


You must love in such a way that the other person feels free.
-Thich Nhat Hanh


Wishing you a beautiful Friday from the team at Alive in the Fire! May your day and your weekend be inspired by love and light.
 


First photo by Ken Johnson of CKC Image. Second and third photos courtesy of Kelsie and Yani. 

What Helps You Stay Mindful?

What helps you stay mindful throughout your day?

I was recently asked to answer this question. What practices do I use to fight stress and boost productivity? My favorites are

yoga, breathwork and writing.

Meditation, yoga, writing and breathing practices help me stay mindful.

On stressful days, I try to give myself permission to

sit with what is

, whether I'm tired or emotional or overwhelmed. I like to sit down or sometimes take 'legs up the wall' pose and just spend a few minutes noticing my body. 

Where do I feel tense? How am I breathing? What is the energy in my body like in this moment?

Rolling out my yoga mat and moving for 15-20 minutes allows me to release stagnant energy. Some days, I'll stay with one pose for an extended period of time. One minute in headstand, or two minutes in Pigeon on each side -- that can make a huge difference in how my day is going!

I also love to write in my journal. I think it's important to write from a place of authenticity. If I'm having a rough day, I might not write a gratitude list. I might write about why I'm upset, why I feel stuck, or what I'm fearful of. On happy days, a gratitude list or a blog post or a long post on Instagram might be more fitting. The important thing is to start with how I'm truly doing, instead of trying to pretend I'm in a different space.

Breathing is so important too. Lately I've been all about

Nadi Shodhana

, alternate nostril breathing. I feel so relaxed after just a few minutes of this Pranayama technique. I'm grateful that there are so many methods for staying mindful and for releasing stress, since different days I need different tools.

This post was inspired by a Q&A article I participated in. You can read the full article featuring other amazing yoga teachers and their ideas 

here

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Photos in this post by Ken Johnson of

CKCImage.com

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A Beautiful Yoga Book


Hi friends!

What yoga books are you reading lately?


Sponsored yogini Kels recently checked out Letters from the Yoga Masters, which features the collected letters of Dr. Hari Dickman to the hundreds of yogis he corresponded with—including Swami Sivananda, Ramana Maharshi, and Paramhansa Yogananda. 

Today on Alive in the Fire she shares her thoughts on the book...


This jewel of a book is a fitting tribute to a great soul, offered lovingly by his dedicated student. 

Its a book you don't want to lose. Its passion, its love, its life and most of its words are written by some of the greatest yoga masters of the past. 

Hari, Hari Rickman, (whom you'll later be introduced to, well, sooner than later actually) devoted his life to the study of yoga. He once said, "I'm obsessed with yoga and Ill never get enough." Even as Hari was living in a displaced persons camp during the Second World War, he was studying and practicing yoga. 

One of my favorite scripts is on page 129 where he describes when he learned about Yoni or Shanmukhi Mudra. I really needed a good insight on concentration. The hand written letters that are exampled are engrossing and very intriguing. You have to see them for yourself! 

How fortunate that the yogic knowledge Dr. Dickman gained from many revered teachers has been preserved so carefully and faithfully that it can enrich the lives of many spiritual seekers who otherwise would never have known of him. Right?! 

Last snippet; page. 87 discusses Sitali and Sitkari which I think its great to learn, especially during the warm season because it quickly cools down the body. The breathe is so amazing. Literally. 

Namaste. Kels.

What to Look for In a Pair of Yoga Pants

Yogis, I'm sure you've been there before: you're at your favorite studio, five minutes into class, and you realize... "Sh*t. These yoga pants suck!"

Or maybe you're new to yoga and trying to decide where to shop.

Well, let me help you out a little bit 

:)

What makes a pair of yoga pants awesome?

To me, finding a wonderful pair of leggings to wear to yoga is about three things:

1. Comfort.

I like my yoga pants to fit snugly, but not so snug that they're uncomfortable. Yoga pants should be comfy enough that I can wear them for half the day, or more. 

2. Performance.

Do the yoga pants move around too much while I'm practicing, or do they stay put? Do I feel hot when I wear them, or is the material breathable, so if I start to sweat I don't feel stuffy or overheated? Consider how well your yoga wear will perform as you practice, especially if there's heat involved.

3. Fun design.

Let's be honest-- the new trends in yoga wear offer a variety of fun, creative print designs. Long gone are the days of boring yoga pants!

My new favorite yoga pants?

Ginger Orange

. I've been wearing my awesome

purple leggings

 a lot lately and I've noticed that they are super comfortable and they stay put when I practice. Plus, they're gorgeous!

On the Ginger Orange website it says that their brand offers "activewear for rebel yogis, urban nomads and barefoot hippies." Now that's an awesome approach for yoga pants, if you ask me!

Photos in this post by Ken Johnson of CKCImage.com, featuring

classic royal purple Ginger Orange leggings

What to Look for in a Pair of Yoga Pants: A Guide to Style, Comfort, and Functionality

Finding the perfect pair of yoga pants can feel like searching for the holy grail of activewear. They need to be comfortable, functional, and stylish—all while keeping up with your most dynamic moves. With countless options on the market, how do you choose the right pair for your practice?

Whether you're flowing through vinyasas, holding a warrior pose, or lounging post-practice, here’s a guide on what to look for in a pair of yoga pants.

1. Comfort Is Key

Comfort is non-negotiable when it comes to yoga pants. Since yoga often involves bending, stretching, and holding poses, your pants should move with you without causing irritation or restriction.

What to Consider:

  • Soft, Breathable Fabric: Look for materials like cotton blends, bamboo, or high-quality synthetics that feel soft against your skin and allow airflow.

  • Seam Placement: Flatlock seams prevent chafing and ensure that the pants feel smooth against your skin.

  • Stretchability: Opt for fabrics with four-way stretch, which allow for maximum movement in all directions.

Pro Tip: Always try them on or check return policies if shopping online. Walk around, bend, and stretch to ensure they don’t dig in or feel restrictive.

2. A Flattering and Functional Fit

The fit of yoga pants plays a significant role in both your confidence and your performance. The right pair should hug your body without feeling too tight or too loose.

Types of Fits:

  • High-Waisted: Provides tummy control, stays in place during movements, and offers a sleek silhouette.

  • Mid-Waisted: A versatile option for those who prefer less coverage without risking slippage.

  • Compression Fit: Great for high-intensity or power yoga, as they provide added support and muscle recovery.

  • Relaxed Fit: Ideal for slower practices like yin or restorative yoga, offering more room for ease of movement.

Pro Tip: Avoid pants that feel overly tight at the waistband or around the knees. They should feel snug but never restrictive.

3. Fabric Matters

The fabric of your yoga pants determines how they perform, especially during sweaty sessions or challenging poses.

Key Features to Look For:

  • Moisture-Wicking: Keeps sweat away from your skin, ensuring you stay dry and comfortable during intense practices like hot yoga.

  • Breathability: Lightweight and breathable fabrics prevent overheating.

  • Durability: High-quality fabrics maintain their shape and color, even after multiple washes and stretches.

Common Materials:

  • Nylon-Polyester Blends: Known for their stretch, durability, and quick-drying properties.

  • Cotton Blends: Soft and breathable but may lack moisture-wicking abilities.

  • Eco-Friendly Options: Bamboo and recycled materials are excellent choices for sustainability-minded yogis.

Pro Tip: Check for a gusseted crotch (a triangular or diamond-shaped piece of fabric) to prevent tearing and enhance flexibility.

4. Length and Style for Your Practice

Yoga pants come in various lengths and styles, each suited to different preferences and types of yoga.

Length Options:

  • Full-Length (Leggings): Great for cooler weather or providing full coverage during inversions.

  • 7/8 Length: Hits just above the ankle, offering a modern and versatile look.

  • Capri-Length: Perfect for warmer climates or more dynamic practices.

  • Shorts: Ideal for hot yoga or when you want maximum breathability.

Style Features:

  • Minimalistic Designs: Solid colors or subtle patterns work well for a classic, versatile look.

  • Bold Prints and Patterns: Express your personality and add a playful vibe to your practice.

  • Pockets: Functional for carrying essentials like your phone or keys (especially if you’re wearing them outside the studio).

5. Waistband Design and Stay-Put Power

A good waistband can make or break your yoga pants. It’s essential that the waistband stays in place, especially during inversions or flows.

Types of Waistbands:

  • Elastic Waistbands: Lightweight but may dig in or roll down during movement.

  • Wide Waistbands: Provide a secure, flattering fit and prevent rolling or slipping.

  • Drawstring Waistbands: Allow for adjustability, though they may not be as sleek.

Pro Tip: Test the waistband by performing forward folds, backbends, and side stretches to ensure it stays put.

6. Transparency Test

No one wants to worry about see-through yoga pants during downward dog! Ensuring your pants are squat-proof is a must for confidence during practice.

How to Check for Transparency:

  • Bright Lighting Test: Stand in bright light or natural sunlight and bend over to check for visibility.

  • Fabric Thickness: Thicker, higher-quality fabrics tend to be more opaque.

  • Double-Lined Material: Some yoga pants include an extra layer in key areas for added coverage.

7. Durability and Longevity

Yoga pants are an investment, so you’ll want a pair that lasts through countless sessions and washes.

What to Look For:

  • Reinforced Seams: Ensure the pants won’t unravel or lose shape.

  • Pilling Resistance: Choose fabrics that resist pilling, especially if you use a mat with a textured surface.

  • Shape Retention: High-quality materials should snap back into shape after stretching.

Pro Tip: Read reviews to see how the pants hold up over time, particularly in high-use areas like the knees and waistband.

8. Sustainability and Ethical Practices

For eco-conscious yogis, choosing sustainable yoga pants aligns with the practice of ahimsa (non-harming). Many brands now offer options made from eco-friendly materials and ethical labor practices.

Sustainable Materials:

  • Recycled Polyester: Made from post-consumer waste like plastic bottles.

  • Organic Cotton: Produced without harmful chemicals or pesticides.

  • Bamboo: A renewable resource that’s soft, breathable, and biodegradable.

Pro Tip: Look for certifications like GOTS (Global Organic Textile Standard) or Fair Trade labels to ensure ethical production.

9. Versatility Beyond the Mat

The best yoga pants transition seamlessly from the studio to your everyday life. Look for styles that pair well with casual tops or sweaters so you can go from class to errands with ease.

Versatile Features:

  • Neutral colors like black, navy, or gray.

  • Pockets for convenience.

  • Stylish patterns or details that elevate their look.

10. Budget and Value

While premium yoga pants often come with a higher price tag, they’re usually worth the investment for their durability and performance. That said, there are affordable options that deliver great quality if you’re on a budget.

Budget Tips:

  • Look for sales, discounts, or end-of-season deals from trusted brands.

  • Consider multipurpose leggings that work for yoga, running, and lounging.

  • Test affordable options but pay attention to transparency, durability, and fit.

11. Brands to Explore

While personal preference plays a big role, here are a few brands known for high-quality yoga pants:

  • Lululemon: Famous for durability and sleek designs.

  • Athleta: Offers inclusive sizing and eco-friendly options.

  • Alo Yoga: Combines performance with high-fashion aesthetics.

  • Girlfriend Collective: Sustainable and stylish, made from recycled materials.

  • Old Navy Active: Affordable options with great performance.

Pro Tip: Read customer reviews to find the best pair for your body type and practice.

Conclusion: The Perfect Yoga Pants for You

Choosing the right pair of yoga pants comes down to your unique needs, preferences, and practice. Prioritize comfort, functionality, and durability, and don’t forget to test them in real-life movements before committing. The perfect pair will not only enhance your yoga practice but also make you feel confident and at ease, whether you’re on the mat or off.

Happy practicing—and happy pant hunting! 🧘‍♀️✨

Trust Yourself


Trust your instincts.

Believe in your strength. Look how far it has brought you.

You can be happy on your own, without asking anyone else for their approval.

You're capable, and the universe has offered you this moment to shine.

And if you get to the end of the day and realize you haven't even been aware of your instincts, or noticed your strength, give yourself permission to shake that off and start over again.

Photo by Ken Johnson of CKCImage.com.

Pranayama: Nadi Shodhana (Alternate Nostril Breathing)

Happy Monday, yogis! I hope you had a restful and fun weekend.

I'm curious: do you practice pranayama (breathing techniques) at your yoga studio, or at home?

It's interesting to me how the culture of every yoga studio varies, and it seems like these days you can find both traditional classes which feature ancient, yogic breathing practices, and you can also find studios where you'll only hear about Ujjayi breath while in class.

Recently I've been incorporating

nadi shodhana, or alternate nostril breathing,

 into my daily routine. I find that it relaxes my entire body, calms my mind, and helps me feel balanced.

Would you like to try it?

Find a comfortable seated position, and close your eyes. (Note, if this is your first time trying a pranayama technique, please see my note below.*)

Take a few moments to ground yourself. Allow your thoughts to settle.

Notice your body, any sensation, any area that draws your attention.

Then, notice your breath.

Where in your body do you feel your breath?

Let your awareness settle on the breath alone. You can begin counting your inhales and exhales. Inhale to a count of four; exhale to a count of four.

After a few rounds like this, we'll begin nadi shodhana, alternate nostril breathing.

Bring your right hand just in front of your face.

Bend your index and middle fingers, creating a sort of "y" shape with your hand. During this breath technique, you'll use your thumb to cover your right nostril, and your ring finger to cover your left nostril.

Close your right nostril with your right thumb. Inhale through the left nostril slowly and steadily, filling up your lungs.

Close your left nostril with your ring finger so both nostrils are closed; retain your breath at the top for a brief moment. Then, open your right nostril and release the breath through the right side, exhaling fully.

Inhale slowly through the right side, filling up again. At the top of the breath, hold both nostrils closed and pause for a moment.

Then open your left nostril and breathe slowly out through the left side. Pause briefly at the bottom.

Repeat for two to five minutes (or longer). Work up to longer periods of practicing this breath.

Here's a simplified explanation, in case that above description got a little confusing or wordy for you ;)

  • Exhale fully.

  • Cover your right nostril as you inhale on the left.

  • Pause at the top of the breath and close both nostrils.

  • Cover your left nostril as you exhale on the right.

  • (Keep your fingers as is as you) inhale on the right.

  • Pause at the top of the breath and close both nostrils.

  • Open your left nostril and exhale on the left.

Or, even more simply:

  • Inhale left, exhale right.

  • Inhale right, exhale left.

Once you get the hang of this breath technique, it's very relaxing.

Nadi Shodhana is a powerful yogic practice. This breath will allow you to: 

support your lung and respiratory system, balance the left and right hemispheres of your brain, clear your body's energetic channels, rejuvenate your nervous system and release stress.

*An important note

: one of my favorite yoga teachers once explained to me that pranayama is a serious part of the yoga practice. It's important to establish a foundational yoga practice before you begin working on pranayama. Please practice with a teacher who is knowledgeable and can show you exactly how the breath technique works and who you can ask questions. 

Nadi Shodhana is a basic pranayama practice, so it would probably be OK for you to try it simply based on reading this post, but if you're getting into any other more complex breath practices, or any pranayama that involves holding (retaining) the breath, please do so with an experienced teacher in the room with you. As with anything in yoga, if any of these breath practices cause you any sort of anxiety, please skip them and go back to your normal breath in and out through the nose.

Namaste.

All images in this post by Ken Johnson of

CKCImage.com

. Leggings by

Ginger Orange Activewear

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Questions


There is this deep part of me that questions... everything.

All the bits and pieces of my life.

I hear the questions, quietly in my mind. 


Is this what I'm supposed to be doing?

Where do I want to go from here?

Can I accept this moment, as it is?

Can I love myself, as I am? 
  

Today I can choose to set those questions aside and simply breathe.

Simply be.

Images in this post by Ken Johnson of CKCImage.comLeggings by Ginger Orange.

5 Things You can Do Right Now to Ease Anxiety


Anyone else out there struggle with anxiety sometimes?

Today on Alive in the Fire I want to talk about some ways that you can ease anxiety during a stressful moment.



1. Notice where you are. Can you draw your experience into your physical body? Notice where you are, what you see, where your body is touching the ground. Feel your feet, your hands, your belly. Sit down and put your back against a wall, or maybe lie down. Notice, what is your body asking for? Get grounded into your physical being.

2. Take deep breaths. Oftentimes when I've experienced strong anxiety, I start to breathe shallowly and quickly, from my chest, rather than taking in deep belly breaths. This can lead to an intensified feeling of panic. If I sit down and breathe consciously for a few minutes, this helps a lot. One tool I love to use is the SAM app I downloaded on my phone; it's an app designed specifically to help with anxiety and there's one option for 'Calm breathing' where you can use a timer to count your inhales and exhales. It might sound silly or oversimplified, but when you're in a high-anxiety state it's actually a very effective and calming technique to focus on breathing. Take away distractions. Breathe. This will help relax your body and calm your mind.


3. Take a shower or wash your face. Give yourself a little massage, either on your feet or your temples. Take a moment to rinse away this moment. Picture yourself brushing off whatever is weighing on you. Again, stay present to your physical body.


4. Express some of the emotions you're feeling. Verbalize and speak out loud about what's going on for you. Maybe you talk to yourself in the shower, or write in your journal. Or...

5. Reach out. Call or text a friend. Ask if you can come over and get a hug. Let yourself lean on those you love, and acknowledge that it's OK to feel weak right now. Talk. Talk more than you want to. Talk, even though it's uncomfortable. Let the conversation be messy and let yourself be OK with that. 

And, at the end of the day, give yourself permission to be in a place of struggle. Remind yourself that you are OK. Things will get better from here.


Namaste, loves! Sending each of you a hug. 

Illustrations found on Pinterest (via HealthyPlace.com and Dena Douglas Hobbs)  and from Google Play (SAM App illustration).

PS Other great posts about dealing with anxiety:

Your Yoga Practice


Consider for a moment that every move you make today will count as your yoga practice.

Each word you speak. Each breath, the fullness with which you breathe.

Let your poses, like your life, be an offering.


Consider the way you move through your day.

Can you leave more evidence of love?

Can you spread kindness in subtle ways, even when your first reaction isn't compassion?


Go within. Do your meditation.

Share your practice.

Namaste.

Change


Change is good.

It can turn your strengths into invincible powers. Sometimes you get sick of sitting in the chair so you build a standing desk.

Sometimes you get bored with painting so you dive into sculpture. 

Whatever is happening in your world, don't stop.

Things will click and doors will open.




Quote by Markus Almond. Photos by Brynna Bryant of Respiro Photography.

Ways to Wind Down After a Long Day


What helps you wind down after a long day?


Recently I wrote about my morning rituals; here's a little list to balance out the other half of the day :)

Relaxing Rituals for the Afternoon and Evening
  • Light a fire in the fireplace, or the firepit in the front yard.
  • Take a walk in the woods, or around your neighborhood.
  • Light a candle.
  • Read a magazine in the sunshine.
  • Have a glass of wine.
  • Watch the sun set.

  • Take an epsom salt bath.
  • Journal for 15 minutes.
  • Practice relaxing yin yoga postures.


What helps you relax at the end of your day?

XO

Flexibility


Yoga is a practice of staying flexible when things don't go as planned.

My practice gives me the freedom to fail. To set a goal and fall short, and still stay hopeful. To try again, without judgment or guilt.


Yoga is a practice of understanding. Of inner awareness.

It is not a race, a competition, or a performance.


Yoga is a spiritual practice of awakening. Of seeing things differently. 

Awareness within each moment.

Flexibility to adapt, willingness to breathe, even as things change.


Photos in this post by Felipe Silva of Uprise Collective.